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Coping Skills

Coping skills are practical tools that can help people manage stress, regulate emotions, ground themselves, and get through difficult moments. Different skills work for different people, so this page offers many options to explore.

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100 Coping Skills

Grounding Skills

  1. Use the 5-4-3-2-1 grounding method
  2. Name five things you can see
  3. Hold an ice cube
  4. Count backward from 100
  5. Focus on your feet touching the floor
  6. Describe the room around you
  7. Touch something textured
  8. Listen for five different sounds
  9. Name objects by color
  10. Repeat a calming phrase

Breathing Skills

  1. Box breathing
  2. Deep belly breathing
  3. 4-7-8 breathing
  4. Slow exhales
  5. Count each breath
  6. Breathe in through the nose and out through the mouth
  7. Place a hand on your chest and stomach
  8. Practice paced breathing
  9. Imagine breathing in calm and out stress
  10. Pair breathing with calming music

Physical Coping Skills

  1. Go for a walk
  2. Stretch
  3. Take a shower
  4. Drink water
  5. Eat a nourishing snack
  6. Dance to one song
  7. Do gentle yoga
  8. Clean one small area
  9. Sit outside
  10. Play with a pet

Creative Coping Skills

  1. Journal
  2. Draw
  3. Color
  4. Paint
  5. Write poetry
  6. Make a playlist
  7. Take photos
  8. Create a collage
  9. Work on a craft
  10. Write a letter you do not send

Emotional Regulation Skills

  1. Name the emotion
  2. Rate the emotion from 1 to 10
  3. Ask what the emotion is trying to tell you
  4. Practice self-compassion
  5. Use opposite action
  6. Take a pause before responding
  7. Identify the trigger
  8. Write down the thought
  9. Challenge an unhelpful thought
  10. Remind yourself feelings are temporary

Mental Coping Skills

  1. Do a puzzle
  2. Read a book
  3. Listen to a podcast
  4. Watch a comforting show
  5. Learn something new
  6. Make a simple to-do list
  7. Break a task into smaller steps
  8. Practice mindfulness
  9. Use a grounding app
  10. Repeat affirmations

Social Coping Skills

  1. Text a trusted person
  2. Call a friend
  3. Ask for support
  4. Spend time with safe people
  5. Join a support group
  6. Sit near others in a public place
  7. Talk to a therapist
  8. Write in an online support community
  9. Ask someone to distract you
  10. Tell someone what you need

Comfort Coping Skills

  1. Wrap in a blanket
  2. Make tea or coffee
  3. Light a candle safely
  4. Use a weighted blanket
  5. Hold a stuffed animal or pillow
  6. Watch a comfort movie
  7. Listen to calming sounds
  8. Use lotion or calming scents
  9. Put on comfortable clothes
  10. Rest without guilt

Practical Coping Skills

  1. Set a timer for five minutes
  2. Do one small chore
  3. Make the bed
  4. Prepare tomorrow's outfit
  5. Organize one drawer
  6. Pay one bill
  7. Write down three priorities
  8. Create a simple meal
  9. Step away from social media
  10. Reduce noise or stimulation

Hope & Meaning Coping Skills

  1. Write down one reason to keep going
  2. Look at photos of people or pets you love
  3. Pray
  4. Meditate
  5. Read something inspirational
  6. Make a future plan
  7. Write a gratitude list
  8. Help someone else in a small way
  9. Remember a hard thing you survived
  10. Tell yourself, "This moment will pass."